So instead of clinging to the idea of being with that person, she cultivates the quality in her.
When I applied the advice to myself, I realized that for the relationships that did not last, my attraction was an expression of my loneliness.
So it would only seem right to turn to him for advice and guidance when it comes to love – something that we hold so dear to our hearts and encircle our life around.
What would Buddha do if he had a set of dating tips?
She started Meet Mindful to provide a place for singles into personal development, mindfulness, social change, meditation, yoga and green living to meet like-minded people and discover how to have the best relationship possible.
Author Charlotte Kasl, Ph D, a practicing therapist and nationally recognized workshop leader for more than 20 years, has had lifelong connections to feminism, Buddhism, Quaker practice, and Reiki healing.
The author of several books including Finding Joy, she lives in Lolo, Montana.
But when you actually ask yourself why, it gives you clarity and honesty.
According to one of the senior nuns, more often than not when she is attracted to someone she realizes she is actually attracted to a quality they have, that she wishes she had in her.